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   ہم اپنی آپ میں اعتماد پیدا کر کے کس طرح اپنی شخصیت کو بہتر بنا سکتے ہیں۔
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   Fantastic Ways to Improve Your Personality

   
   

   Personality:

        Personality is the sum or total of ways both inherited or environments in which human react or interact with others.

   
   

         The building of successful career development  depends upon four components.

   1)      Skill

   2)      Interest

   3)      Personality traits

   4)      Traits for leadership

   5)      Personality depends upon three concepts

   Now I  will define all above mentioned topics.

   
   

   1. Skills.

        Skills are the capacity to carry out specific tasks. They are the capability and talent to do something. Anyone has proficiency to do something  these proficiencies can include critical thinking and manual outdoor presentation negotiation and technological.

   
   

   2. Interest.

         Show genuine interest in other people. A good person should talk in terms of other person needs and interest. Feelings of other persons make important in a sincere manner.

   
   

   3. Personality traits.

   
   

   Ø  Attitude                         

        The number one quality for career success is championship thinking. A good person must have to stay optimistic and positive.

   
   

   Ø  Enthusiastic

       A good person must arouse eagerness  in another person. This is the energy that inspires others.

   
   

   Ø  Ethical

       For a good person we have the moral values and principles of life. we have the good thoughts speech and deed. For example we should be a mindful responsible and trustworthy.

   
   

   Ø  Goal focused

      Complete grip on your object for which you strive in your personal and professional life. Show honest yourself and sincere appreciation. you should have faith in life, others and oneself.

   
   

   Ø  Listener

      You should  encourage the others  to talk about himself or herself.you should have the ability to impress others.

   
   

   Ø  Network

       The way you influence the others and  interconnecting with others is a positive relationship.

   
   

   Ø  Persistent

       You should have the ability to continue the unpleasant thing. You should try to see things from others point of view. Humbleness and patient are the important factor through which you  achieve the difficult task easily.

   
   

   Ø  Self awareness

      You should understand the most important and basic essentials of good personality e.g. skill, values, interest, behavior and character.

   
   

   Ø  Self confident

       The stiff believe in your abilities.seeks proficient help if this is the area of a weak point. It will be attraction it.

   
   

   Ø  Self discipline

        The skills to control the pin point impulses. then energy can be alerted and channel in the direction of your ambition.

   
   

        It is unfeasible to limit the directory of just 10c so here are 25 more represent my second rank.

   ·         Self sacrificing

   ·         Hygiene style                                                                                                                                 

   ·         Good communication skill

   ·         Maturity

   ·         Positive social to every one

   ·         Treat people with respect

   ·         Polite behavior

   ·         Emotionally competent

   ·         Relationship oriented

   ·         Co-operative courageous

   ·         Crucial

   ·         Punctual

   ·         Respectful

   ·         Responsibility

   ·         Analytical mind

   ·         Balanced

   ·         Collaborative

   ·         Honesty

   ·         Tolerance of ambiguity

   ·         Have an open heart ready to help

   
   

   4. Traits for leadership.  

        Big five models of leader-ship argues that there should be following traits in leadership.

   a. Agreeableness

   b. Extroversion

   c. Conscientiousness

   d. Openness to experience

   e. Emotional stability

   
   

   5. Personality depends upon three concepts

   a. Heredity

   b. Environment

   c. Situation

   
   

   a. Heredity

        These are the factors determined at conception like physical structure  factor attractiveness, refuses. The followers of heredity argues that the personality is defined by the molecular structure of genes located  in chromosomes.

   
   

   b. Environmental factors

         The environment in which we raise like family, friends, locality.

   
   

   c. Situation

        Situation effect the influence of heredity and environment. Mostly individual personality remains stable but different situation requires different personality.

   
   

         By: Mrs.Talha Manzoor

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   Wonderful Tips for Test Preparation

   
   

   Be relaxed and confident:

        Being calm, relaxed and confident is essential for the exam. More you will be confident and relaxed more your progress will be good. So before your exam in the morning and night practice this for five minutes.

       Relax your body. Breath in and out then times. Now close your eyes and imagine that you are going towards examination hall. Recall your roll number and find your seat in your imagination and see yourself sitting on the seat solving the paper. Imagination should be bright and clear.

        Now see that the invigilator is coming towards you and giving you question paper and answer sheet. Read the question paper, instructions and all questions quietly with concentration. Imagine that you have answered all the questions correctly. At the end imagine that you are coming out from the examination hall happily and telling your friends that your exam gone very well. You are delighted.

   
   

   Get a chance to refresh your mind:

        Take a complete sleep and good rest night before the exam. Your mind gets tired of constantly studying and working. Let it take a rest. You would be fresher in the exam which would make your progress better.

   
   

   Collect the required stationary properly:

         Get set with your roll number slip, pen, marker, scale, calculator one night before exam. You should have extra pens during an exam if one doesn’t work you can go with the other. After getting up next morning check all the things once again. You would not have to face kind of problem doing this.

   
   

   Take a light breakfast:

         You shouldn’t go to your empty stomach for the exam but don’t eat too much. It could be a lighter but must take your breakfast. Don’t take much tea and any kind of drinks this would cause urine and you will waste your precious time during the exam.

   
   

   Be careful, calm and active:

        Don’t read anything one hour before exam. Specially any new thing. However revision can be done. Reach the examination hall 30 minutes before the exam starts. As it opens go, find and take your seat. Before getting question paper ten times breathe out. Close your eyes and relax yourself with a five minute imaginative walk. Then imagine that you are solving paper very calmly and easily. Imagination should be bright, big and clear.

   
   

   Divide the time:

         After getting answer sheet write your name, roll number and other required details on the given place. Now read the question paper carefully. Now mark the questions you are going to attempt. Divide every question according to the marks. Spending 20 minutes in the question that requires 10 minutes would be a mistake. Usually 3 hours (180 minutes) are given to solve the paper. Separate last ten minutes for the revision and divide other 170 minutes according to the numbers of question and marks. And follow this time limit.

   
   

   Arrangement of the answers:

          First of all solve the question you can solve better than all means A+ questions. It would leave a good impression on examiner which also causes him to avoid minor mistakes afterwards. And he gives good marks. Second question should also be A+. If you are weak in any question write it at third and then go on with 4th and 5th which should be again better. Solving paper in this way would cause to get good marks for even third weak answer.

   
   

   Never leave any question:

          Never leave any question. Must write something even headings, or make some outline. It would help you to get some marks.

   Avoid cutting and over writing:

   Avoid cutting and overwriting in exam. It gives a bad impression. If any word requires to be cut off make a bracket around it and make two little crosses on the both upper corners. For example *(India)*

   
   

   Leave some lines under every answer:

          After every answer must leave few lines that if you remember some points later you can add them to the answer. If you require an extra sheet ask for it as you start writing on the last page for the invigilator takes 2-3 minutes to give an extra sheet.

   
   

   Don’t get worried if you forget:

           If you forget the answer while writing don’t get worried. In this situation read the question again and the answer as well how much you have written. Usually it reminds the forgotten answer. Otherwise if it takes long to remind the answer leave it for a while and solve other questions as you remember this one, solve it.

   
   

    Revise your paper:

         Don’t forget to revise your paper in last ten minutes. This way you can make corrections in your mistakes and can get more marks. Don’t do solve the paper till the end rather revise it, make corrections and remove the mistakes. You will get more marks. Be in the examination hall all the time. Relax in spare time. You can think of more good things and answers meanwhile. Check your roll number before handing over the paper to invigilator. And make sure that the paper is properly stapled otherwise your extra sheets could be lost.

   
   

   What to do after exams:

            If paper didn’t go with your expectations then don’t get worried. Because you’re being worried cannot not make it better. However it would affect your next exam negatively. Hence instead of getting worried concentrate on your next exam. Don’t discuss your exam with your friends afterward about what you wrote because they may vary and you will get upset and doubtful. After coming home just relax and do totally different activities. At that time your mind needs relaxation and rest. Exercise is a best way to give relief to your mind and body and get relaxed. Such kind of exercise that enables you to get fresh air is better. Tea-coffee are also good drinks for relaxation. Get yourself entertained with some activity. As you become fresh and relaxed start preparation for the next exam.
   

   
   

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   Tips for Selecting a Best Profession

        One chooses/selects profession either to support family or for personal interest, personal interest side by side sincerity with profession leads to perfect professionalism. Whatever the profession is if someone lacks the interest in one’s profession then the passion as well as the profession affected to some extent. The person regrets to the rest of his life.

   Selection of profession:

        One should be very careful and sensitive to choose a profession. I am an adult and its time for me to choose or select a profession for the rest of life so that there should be no regret. Keeping all the aspects I select or prefer to select the profession of the dentistry and teaching.

   Reasons to choose a profession:

        The first reason is that I love the medicine and surgery field. Besides from personal interest in dentistry less time will be taken to get graduated for starting the professional life. One should have a legal certificate to open a clinic. The second important reason is to aware people about oral hygiene to human beings. As there is poor (oral hygiene all over the world. People are less aware of this aspect of life. Financially, dentistry is more successful than to MBBS. For females it is successful and secure profession. There are rarely emergencies in the field of dentistry. One can easily run their own clinic officially with the Free State of mind. Life is less stressful. One can maintain profession and personal life as well. One would be able to interact with the people of all classes . One’s communication skills can also be nourished in this field. One would not only treat people but also give them an awareness about oral hygiene. TO relieve people from pains would give one’s internal satisfaction and happiness. One would enjoy his life as he would treat less political conditions. He would be able to establish a good relationship with his patients.

   Part time profession:

        One should plan to teach along with dentistry. Teaching is also an ideal profession for every gender.

   Reasons of part time profession:

        Teaching reveals hidden meanings in words which passed before our eyes usually. Teaching also improves communication skills and social life. Teaching a new thing to students give internal satisfaction and happiness to oneself. Teaching makes a respectful relationship with other people. A teacher can influence the minds of the future of a nation.

   Conclusion: 

         In both professions moral values occupy the highest places. May these professions be a success? First of all we should focus on our passion then we should start to collect information about our profession. We can collect information from the people of respected or concerned field so that we can focus on our concerned field. We should manage the finance for admission in a good institute. Now a day’s finance is the major problem in the selection of a profession. We can collect finance by part time job or we can save money from our own pocket. People now a day is becoming very complex because of the changing environment of the world. They do not know how to choose a profession. One cannot achieve his passion until he has proper information about his passion. One can only achieve his passion by full focus and handwork. Proper counseling is important from childhood to teenage. Some people choose their profession on teenage. In teenage one can get proper information from concerned people. Profession selection is a very critical and tough stage for anyone.

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   Tips for Arranging Tuition Fee

   
   

   I am a student of master level. I had to face many problems in arranging my tuition fee of the university. I asked many relatives to lend me the amount but in vain. A few years ago my mother had invested the amount which she received from my dad at the time of divorce in National Saving Certificates. I used that amount to pay my fee. During the next session I will use the rent of agricultural land in the form of amount for paying my fee. I teach to manage my domestic expenses. That is why, that amount will be used to pay my fee.  

   
   

   Payment of tuition fee of the university is an important matter for the students. There are some students who can conveniently pay the fee but there are certainly some students who cannot pay their tuition fees. Therefore, the matter of paying a fee is very important for the discussion. Here few tips are being suggested for such arrangement. Tips would be for both kinds of students. Mostly college and university students face problems in arranging their fees. These tips are long term. These can be adopted by all the students of different educational levels.

   
   

   1.      Parents

               The best way to arrange tuition fee is to collect it from the parents. This way can only work if the student depends on parents and the parents are in a position to pay the tuition fee. Mostly the students of intermediate level or below depend upon their parents for fee payment. Moreover, the tuition fee of these classes is relatively less than the fee of higher classes.

   
   

   2.      Use of pocket money

               Pocket moneys are awarded weekly or daily. These pocket moneys can be used to pay the tuition fee. Pocket monies can be saved in saving accounts which pay profit on a monthly basis. The university students may withdraw the amount after six months to pay the next season’s fee provided that the pocket money should be invested in such saving accounts that allow withdrawal of investment after six months. Normally fees of school and college classes are collected on an annual basis. So, the accounts paying annual return can be invested in. The higher the money invested, the greater the return and the amount to be collected at the end. 

   
   

   3.      Scholarship amount

               Studying at master level scholarships can be obtained from the universities or education promoting organizations. Colleges and schools also offer scholarships. The amount of these scholarships can be adjusted in next season’s fee.

   
   

   4.      Student loan scheme

               Many financial institutions and universities offer student loan scheme at easy installments with service charges to promote education to brilliant students. Schools and colleges also play role in this regard. Applications must be filed with the concerned authorities to be benefited from such schemes. Fees will be paid directly by such organizations that offer such schemes. Hence, the problem of arranging fee is solved. Organizations may require verification about the applicant. 

   
   

   5.      Borrowing

               The amount of the fee can be borrowed from any friend, close relative or others having sound financial position. The amount can be refunded during the session with the assistance of income earned from the job.

   
   

   6.      Use of fixed asset (other than Agricultural Land)

               Fixed asset is a strong source of finance generation. These assets can be lent out if in redundant states. If the return is not reasonable the same can be used to generate loan from any financial institution if the student loan scheme can not be benefited from. At the end, such asset can be disposed off. Amount of disposal can be used to pay the fee.  The rest amount should be used for any production purposes so that it may provide long term earning sources.

   
   

   7.      Use of Agricultural land

               If none of the family members can cultivate on agricultural land. The land can be lent to another person for cultivation against rent for use of land in the farm produce or amount or both. This is mostly done in Asian countries. The produce can be sold out and the amount can be saved to pay the fee. If the rent is in the form of amount, that amount can be used to pay the fee. Part of the amount can be allocated for expenses.

   
   

   8.      Part time jobs

   
   

   Ø  Non teaching jobs

               If the financial position of the students is not good. The students may find part time jobs according to their qualifications. The student of master levels can get jobs according to their qualifications. Similarly the students of graduation levels can get jobs according to their abilities. The salary earned can be used to pay their tuition fees. The best again is to invest that amount in any savings account that pays an attractive rate of return. The semester fees, annual fees or tuition fee of other kinds can be paid. Job times can be adjusted according to the feasibility.

   
   

   Ø  Teaching jobs

               Teaching jobs can also be obtained. The students can teach at different levels like an academy, school or college. The amount earned can be saved for tuition fee purpose. Part of the amount earned can be spent in arranging daily expenses and part of the amount earned can be invested in any savings account. The reasonable ratio must be used to allocate the amount between savings and expenditures. The students of master level may get an opportunity to teach at the college. The others may get a teaching opportunity at academies or schools. If one is not ready to work under any restriction, one may start teaching at one’s home with much less amount. In Asian Countries such services can also be provided in the homes of the students which are termed home tuition. Home tuition pays large funds which can be used to achieve the objective of arranging tuition fee.

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   Advantages of Co-education

                                                             
                                                   
   

   

   
   Introduction to Co-Education:- 
        It is believed that the concept of co-education was introduced by a renewed Greek philosopher, called Plato who believed that girls and boys should be treat equally.
   
   Definition of co-education:-
        Co-education means a schooling system, where girls and boys learn together under same roof. Co-education system removes any impartation between boys and girls and gives them an opportunity to play, write, read and learn together in a surrounding where people are not discriminated on the basis of their sex.
   
                                                        Advantages of co-education
   
   1: Healthy competition:-
        The most important, obvious and natural merit of co-education system is that it creates a very healthy and competitive environment among the students of both sexes. In co-education system both the sexes compete with each other because there exists a natural tendency among boys and girls to beat the opposite sex and to be declared as a winner. Co-education encourages them to try to do better than the opposite sex as a result they use advanced techniques in order to get better grades and jobs.
   
   2: Building confidence:-
        It has been analyzed that the students which have got their education under co-education system are more confident as compared to the students who have been learning in single sex school system through out their educational career. Such students hesitate to interact with the opposite gender in their later lives on the other hand student who has learned under co-education system they freely interact with opposite sex and do not hesitate or feel uncomfortable in their presence. In mixed schooling system both the sexes can take help from each other and they can also share their ideas on different topics normally girls and boys have different point of view so  the mixed schooling system enables them to share their ideas, removal of differences and also creates team spirit among them it also promotes mutual understanding between them.
   
   3: Preparation of real world:-
        Co-education system enables the students of opposite sexes to freely interact with each other which is an essential and mandatory skill for all adults who are working and living in a society. It is important that the students relating to different sexes should not fee annoyed in the presence of opposite gender they should feel comfortable especially when they are discussing something with the opposite gender, they should also feel comfortable while socializing with the different sex. This is very important aspect which will make them more confident in their future lives.
   
   

   

   
   
   4: Exposure to different view points and people:-
        The exposure of male student to the female student have a calming effect it means that by simply combining male and female students in classes we can create a very friendly environment and it also has positive effect on their behavior. Studies have shown that students of different gender usually have different school of thoughts and they have different patterns of behavior, being exposed to multiple behavior and attitudes enables to survive in the world and it also advances open mindedness in them.
   
   5: Respect for opposite sex:-
   

        If the students of opposite sex interact with each other on regular basis it encourages and cultivates a relationship of respect among them this kind of environment discourages the discrimination on the basis of sex and gives them a chance to work on equal level and it also enhances their ability to think and work efficiently. If the students are learning under single sex educational system both the genders will develop stereotypes against each other sex, boys normally creates stereotypes against the female students when they don’t see them in a environment which is promoting equality.

   
   6: More economical:-
        Co-education system is more economical in monetary terms as compared to single sex education system because in co-education system both the genders can learn in the same institute according to the similar standards in less budget there is no need to build separate institutes for males and females moreover we don’t have to arrange different teachers to teach them .It means that we can get more output by spending less through co-education system.
   
   7: Breaking stereotypes:-
        Some people think that woman cannot match up the capability level of men they believe that certain gender can do well only in certain area of interest which is better suited for a certain sex. In co-education system female student can was male students taking music and arts classes similarly males can see female students are taking business administration classes as well as science and math’s classes which enables the students of both sexes to understand that stereotypes don’t really define a specific gender, students who have studied under co-education system can easily understand someone of any sex can accomplish anything that he wants to achieve.
   
   8; Best of both world opportunities:-
        Students learning in co-education system can participate in the class discussion while the students learning in single sex education system remain hesitant to take part in discussion in the presence of opposite sex. In co-education system students have the opportunities in different activities with opposite sex peers which boosts their self confidence.They can share their view points and learn together.
   
   
   9: Effective division of work:-
        In co-education system student’s ca divide the work which is best suited for them according to prevailing conditions. For example boys can perform the duties which are related to outdoor activities on the other hand girls can perform indoor activities like gathering research material from internet and decoration etc.
   
   10: Boys engagement: 
        Research shows that boys in co-education environment are more eager and enthusiastic as compared to males learning in single sex education system, co-education enables them to comfortably voice their ideas and opinions in the presence of girls and they also learn to interact, behave well with girls and gain respect from them and the group assignments and discussions provides them a chance to learn from each other socially and intellectually.
   
   

   

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